Not that long ago one of my littles ran up to me, and gave me a hug. Putting my face into her tiny hands she asked me “Do you love me?”. Thinking quickly, smiling I replied, ” I love everything about you.” Her eyes sparkled like the sun, running over to another child she says, “Yup she loves me.” The little friend responds “Told you so!” 🙂 lol.
It is so incredibly difficult to not get completely attached to these little people. Their warm little hugs, the laughter while they play, so many reasons. Their love is so genuine. Somedays it helps when emotions run high, to remind ourselves of the rawness of their trust, knowing how easily it can be broken. Gratefully most children forgive faster than us adults.
Recently a new family started in my day home and she referred to what I do as “Co-Parenting”, I absolutely fell in love with this reference. Such a respectful way of describing the dynamics of the relationship between parents and me. Working together to raise amazing little individuals.
Do I love my daycare kids? Yes. Their love is so unique to each one of them. There are numerous pictures that adorn my wall, little notes of their appreciation to me. When I doubt how effective I am with each of them, I just look around me and see their drive to make me happy. My love for each individual helps remind me of the importance of my profession. The ache of letting them go is only eased by knowing I gave them my best.